Waiver and release of Liability

RELEASE OF LIABILITY

                                                               PARENT/MINOR

            WITNESS THIS AGREEMENT this ______ day of _________________, 20__, by and between Loretta & Peter Arey 20/20 Horsemanship and any and all staff or volunteers, hereinafter referred to as MANAGEMENT and STAFF and _______________________, hereinafter referred to as RIDER, and, if Rider is a minor, Rider's parent or guardian, ____________________________________.  In consideration received, and in return for the use, today and on all future dates of the property, facilities and services of Manager, Manager's instructors, employees and agents; Rider, Rider's heirs, assigns, and representatives, hereby agree as follows:

            1.         Inherent Risks and Assumption of Risk.  The undersigned acknowledges there are inherent risks associated with equine activities such as described below, and hereby expressly assumes all risks associated with participating in such activities.   The inherent risks include, but are not limited to the propensity of equines to behave in ways such as, running, bucking, biting, kicking, shying, stumbling, rearing, falling or stepping on, that may result in an injury, harm or death to persons on or around them; the unpredictability of equine’s reaction to such things as sounds, sudden movement and unfamiliar objects, persons or other animals; certain hazards such as surface and subsurface conditions; collisions with other animals; the limited availability of emergency medical care; and the potential of a participant to act in a negligent manner that may contribute to injury to the participant or others, such as failing to maintain control over the animal or not acting within such participant’s ability.

            Rider or parent acknowledges that horses, by their very nature are unpredictable and subject to animal whim, which may include behavior including but not limited to their propensity to kick, bite, shy, buck, stumble, bolt, rear or general unpredictability.  Rider or parent assumes all risks in connection therewith, and expressly unpredictability.  Rider or parent assumes all risks in connection therewith, and expressly waives any claims for any injury or loss arising therefrom.  Rider or parent agrees to abide by and follow Manager's rules and regulations which, shall be posted and/or available from time to time.  Rider or parent further acknowledges that the behavior of any animal is contingent to some extent upon the ability of Rider.  Rider or parent assumes all risks therefor and warrants a full and fair disclosure of Rider's abilities has been made to Manager.

            Rider or parent expressly releases Manager from any and all claims for personal injury, or death, property damage, even if caused by negligence (if allowed by the laws of this State) by Manager or its representatives, agents or employees.

            Warning

          Under Virginia Law, an equine activity sponsor or an equine professional shall not be liable for an injury to or death of a participant engaged in an equine activity resulting from the inherent risks of equine activities pursuant to Va. Code Ann. §3.1-796.132.

            2.         RIDER (OR RIDER’S PARENT OR GUARDIAN) AGREES TO HOLD HARMLESS, INDEMNIFY AND DEFEND MANAGER AGAINST ANY AND ALL CLAIMS, DEMANDS, CAUSES OF ACTION, DAMAGES, JUDGMENTS, ORDERS, COSTS OR EXPENSES, INCLUDING ATTORNEY'S FEES, WHICH MAY IN ANY WAY ARISE FROM OR BE IN ANY WAY CONNECTED WITH RIDER'S USE OF OR PRESENCE UPON THE PROPERTY OF MANAGER AND THE FACILITIES LOCATED THEREON.  In the event rider is a minor, the parent or guardian shall further indemnify, defend and hold Manager  harmless from any such claims by said minor child, regardless of any statute of limitations or contractual limitation of actions..

            3.         In the event Rider is using Rider's own horse, or a horse(s) not owned by Manager, Rider warrants said horse(s) shall be free from infection, contagious or transmittable diseases.  Manager reserves the right to refuse access or use of any horse upon the premises that does not appear to Manager to be in good health, or is deemed dangerous or undesirable.

            4.         Any action brought under this agreement shall be brought within one (1) year of the incident or accident giving rise to said claim.  Rider agrees that damages shall be limited to $250 for property damage, medical or other actual expenses incurred, and a maximum of $10,000 for damages such as pain and suffering.

            5.         Rider or parent agrees to waive the protection of any applicable statutes in this jurisdiction whose purpose, substance and/or effect is to provide that a general release shall not extend to claims, material or otherwise, which the person giving the release does not know or suspect to exist at the time of executing said release.

Manager		Rider I understand that my signature means I have read and understand this document.
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I understand that my signature means I have read and understand this document.

Loretta
 the natural horseman
 clear communication/visible results

I feel very strongly about this topic: Horses do understand our intentions even when we internalize them

Sculpting Our Energy Within-

What we Think, Say and Do Around Our Horses- By Lori Brown Smith

Over the years that I have been working with horses and learning from Carolyn, it seems that even the most complex things that we can do with our horses can be boiled down into a few simple things: focus, body language, energy level and the clarity of the communication between human and horse.

When I was a little girl, my mom used to go trail riding with a lady who always fretted about the ruts in the trail. I remember sitting in the barn listening to them talk about her Arabian gelding Fred: “Without fail, if there is a hole on the trail, Fred with fall in it!” For some reason, listening to this as a child really left a mark on my memory. What I could not get over was the idea that even if the hole or obstacle was not directly in Fred’s path, he would some how become very flustered and end up in the hole. At the time, I thought that Fred was perhaps magically drawn to the rut or ditch in the trail, and sometimes I would get to follow on my Shetland pony and I would get to see this phenomena happen right in front of me. My pony was never drawn to the ruts and ditches, but then again looking back- I never looked at the hole, I was focused on and looking at the trail that went around the hole. As the years went by, Fred never got hurt on the trail, or had trouble continuing on the trail once he was in the ditch, but he always seemed to take the road less traveled, that’s for sure.

Many years later I still recall those moments on the trail and I continue to analyze what it is that I saw. After replaying the situation in my Waterhole Ritual enriched mind, I know what happened. The rider’s body language, intention and focus were all in the wrong place. Fred may have fallen into a hole once on accident, but it left such an impact on the rider, that she began to look for the holes thinking that he would automatically fall into them. Her focus was on the wrong thing. By looking at the hole in the trail, her body language signaled to him to move toward the ditch, and since her focus was on the ditch, that is most likely the mental picture that she had in her head as well. Her communications were clear to Fred- her energy and intention was to ride through the rut! After time passed, the two developed a pattern- all based on misplaced focus, body language and energy, creating the opposite communication than what was intended.

I wish now that I could go back in time – freeze the moment and alter her body language and focus just before she and Fred were upon the ditch. I would have changed her body language so that she was not looking at the hole, and position her so that her body was faced down the path around the hole. Even her eyes would be looking down the trail, or on the footing around the ditch, not the ditch itself. I would change her intention from trying to avoid the ditch, to walking down the trail without even thinking about the ditch. Her focus would be on what a beautiful trail she and Fred were on and what a great horse is was and how wonderful the ride was. Negative thoughts would not be allowed to come into her mind, and certainly none about holes or ruts.

When working with horses, we need to be clear about our thoughts and intentions, what our focus is on, and follow through with our body language. It took me many years of working with horses in high stress situations to truly understand the importance and safety that these things create and provide. Driving a carriage with a team of horses along with my parents in downtown Los Angeles with a newly married couple in the back of the carriage, I had to hold it together for my horses. The worst was when we had to be stopped somewhere for a long period of time, or even somewhere that was not so long but felt like an eternity such as having to wait at a red light. Yawning became my favorite tool. I would even stand with my weight on one foot to show our mares that I was so relaxed that I was going to fall asleep waiting at the intersection! The magical part of this is that it worked! Not only did they relax seeing me in such a state, but I began to relax even more because my body took on a relaxed posture.

Separating the Mind and Body
With practice, I learned how to take the dangers, distractions or nuisances of whatever situation we were in into consideration without them becoming my focus. I take a mental note of what is going on around me, but my thoughts, words, where I look, and my entire body is driven down the path of safety wherever I might be with my horse. This has served me well at home in the arena, on the trail, on busy city streets, mounted shooting, and down Colorado Boulevard in the Tournament of Roses Parade. There are still times when I have to work harder to achieve these goals than others, but it is about learning and refining and acknowledging that it is a journey.

I have found that when coming into a situation where there are possible hazards in your path, to acknowledge them or even worse- verbalize the hazard out loud to your horse is the worst thing that you can do. Not only will this break your concentration, but it will bring your focus to exactly what you are looking to avoid. Observing the situation is important- but our focus must remain on the path to safety.

The Power of Verbalization
Here is one of the ways that I have found that best cements my focus and body in the right direction- I say what I want to accomplish out loud. Not only does my horse get to hear it, but it gives me added clarity in my directions and where it is I want to go. When Companion Walking, this is a great way to focus on where you will be going. By saying what it is that I am doing out loud, I have also found that it helps me to picture in my mind what I would like to do and refines my directions and leadership.

As with any relationship (with people or horses) that is having difficulty, generally a lack or poor communication can be to blame. This is just one of the many pearls of wisdom that Carolyn has instilled in me over the years, because the same is true with our horses. If we are not clear, or give our horses poorly understood messages, then how can they have a good relationship with us, much less a performance?

Here are a few examples of verbalization that have come in helpful for me with my horses and our performance. When my horse is traveling too fast, it can be easy for me to speed up with him, but if I think to myself “Sack of potatoes” and say it to myself as well (well actually I kind of sing it to myself, when no one can hear, poor horse!  Truth be told, I believe this was something Carolyn told me to think of during a lesson :-) ) I begin to slow myself down, and as a result- so does my horse. When I picture myself riding as if I were a clumpy sack of russet potatoes, my mind is focused on slowing down, and my body follows by slowing down as well. This visualization works great because I don’t know of any sack of potatoes that has a fast pace or rhythm! Sure enough, my horse will slow down and become soft as well. When this happens, it certainly feels like magic to me.

As a side note, John Wayne is one of my favorite people to try to imitate when I am around my horses. His relaxed swagger, and the way he appears to be connected to the ground wherever he is has really helped me to push my body language to a new level and ground myself in a similar way. It might be someone different for you, but I find this to be a fun exercise to try.

Another example that perhaps has been witnessed in public if you have seen me at a mounted shooting event is when I talk myself through the entire course. When I do this, I generally turn in a better time, and my path on the course is very precise, and it is fun to do- at least for me, because I narrate through the entire thing! For example when I would talk to my horse Ben it might sound something like this- “O.K Ben! Here comes the right barrel! Let’s set ourselves up- right leg- outside leg- let’s go boy! Come on Ben, Go Ben! Go!”

It might sound a little corny- but it was always fun, my horse had the benefit of additional clarity, and it usually gave everyone around me a good laugh! However, the point was not to entertain, it was to maintain and increase my focus, communication, direction and purpose of my performance and connection with my horse on the mounted shooting course. I cannot remember a time when I talked my way through my performance that my horse and I did not have a wonderful performance. Not only did it many times improve our time and performance on the course, but it made me more relaxed. If I am in situations where I can’t be as verbal with my horse, I whisper or strongly say the words to myself in my head, which also works.

Using our body language and the power of our minds in a purposeful way is exciting to me because of the amazing results that it offers. When we are able to clear the clutter from our minds and be clear about what we want, I find that the path becomes clear as well. When our intentions are clear, and we place no limitations on what we can and cannot do, we can become sculptors of the energy within us and our horses to create a magical dance wherever we might be together.

Let the Dance Begin!

Lori Brown Smith

In Conclusion

Well, I hope you all enjoyed Lori’s article, I know I sure did!

Soon the Insider Circle and Extended Circle classes will be upon us- the count down is on! Although the Insider Circle is now full, the Extended Circle is available and offers an excellent learning experience as well. If  you have not signed up, you can go to the upper right hand side of the blog and find where to sign up. If you have any additional questions, please email us atoffice@carolynresnick.com  and put “Extended Circle Question” as the subject line. Looking forward to working with all of you soon!

Please report any new horse and human sightings!

Have a great weekend!

Carolyn

Loretta the natural horseman clear communication/visible results

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This is lovely. If you think they resemble Piero, you are correct! The Exmoor is very closely related to the Dartmoor. They are adorable. However I do wonder why they are out in such a large field, their necks are very cresty and I would be concerned about laminitis.

Loretta

the natural horseman

clear communication/visible results

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I think it's possible that Scottie's previous refusals to move on the trail were behavioral in the way that I was not spending enough time with him, therefore he didn't really view me as leader.  When we went out with another horse that he did not know, he could not be sure they could lead either.  I've been spending more time with him plus he likes and respects Gem, so taking him out with her encouraged him. Fun ride with an awesome student.  em had a grand time splashing in the water, right near the edge as it was very swelled from all the rain.







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Spring and summer help

Working Students and Interns spring and summer help Within the next month I am offering this opportunity for a few working students and interns.  Duties include but are not limited to: grooming helping prepare for beginner lessons feeding exercising daily handling and ground training mucking turn in/out Qualifications: Must be responsible Must practice safe horsemanship Must display mature decision making ability Must have great desire to learn Must NOT be afraid of hard work Benefits: Loretta is willing to teach you all about horsemanship: herd behavior body language  proper ground handling  natural horsemanship ground training MANY opportunities to observe the 7 horses in a natural environment learn to ride with a naturally, safe, secure seat  Working students and interns will have many opportunities for schooling and trail riding, (based upon knowledge and experience) but will not be riding daily.  Please do not apply if your main goal is to ride.  This is a WHOLE Horsemanship program, not a riding program.  Please note: a working student and intern type relationship is a trade off.  It is NOT a paying position.  I will teach you my approach to horsemanship and you can ride in exchange for your services as described above. Please email:  Loretta@2020horsemanship.com to apply for a position.

Loretta the natural horseman clear communication/visible results